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introduction |
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signs of anger |
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Ron's story |
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what's wrong with anger? |
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hidden anger |
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cause of anger |
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changing thinking |
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arresting anger |
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transmuting anger |
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order CDs |
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counselling services |
CHANGING OUR THINKING
The change in thinking required for dissolving anger is, quite simply, the opposite of those thoughts which lead to its appearance. The most effective thoughts are utilised in the
Transmuting Anger CDs and are shared with you below:
Nothing and nobody can make us angry. Our thinking is the sole cause of our distress.
It is we who need to change, not others.
Others cannot help what they do, but we can.
Everything is happening according to a higher plan, just as in Nature.
The happiness and love we seek already lies within us,
unseen like fire within wood,
like diamonds hidden beneath the earth.
Forgiveness is essential, although really there is nothing to forgive.
Those who hurt, annoy, disappoint or defame us are just the messenger, the teacher.
Grief and anxiety can never really affect us, no more than the movie can affect the screen upon which it is projected.
Nobody dies. We are the immortal Self.
Everyone is a mirror reflecting back to us how and what we think.
Our thoughts create our world. Wearing green coloured glasses makes the world seem green.
To summarise:
Desire produces anger and thoughts produce desire. So when we change our thinking, desire is capped and anger loses the fuel for its fire.
